Have you been heard about Relationship Life Cycle?...no.right.?..me neither...
i really remember that my lecturer taught about product life cycle..but for me,life cycle it not only about product but also relationship...and obviously i talk about "special relationship"...eh,helo means "bf and gf" lah...aiyok...
iTs not that i'm want highlight that im totally super duper single but when you see my "relationship theory"...i'm sure you will think about it...pfttt...."relationship theory"..?..
Have you think that your relationship have a period.....who im pointed?...ya...its you those who read this entry..we always pray for the best in our relationship but often we cannot avoid from breaking...every starting point have their own ending point
"My relationship THeory"=1+2+3+4= {4 +1}=5 stages..
Stage 1- friendship sparkling
This the stages when we meet someone in my life..
Prince :"hi my name prince"...you look like my old bestfriend(such an old tricks,pfft).mind to be friend?what's yr name...?
Mrs.cinderella: hi..did i know you..?(shows an awkward face,but as i expect..she give a respond)...btw my name Cinderella...
Prince : wow,a great name that suit with you. errr...your name is exactly same with tale story....are u accaunt student,part 3 maybe?
Mrs.cinderella:thanks..ya im accaunt student..but you r so wrong..im part 1 actually..
Prince :i think im in hurry..if you dun mind can you give me your phone number..
Mrs.Cinderella:of cos i dun mind...we r friend right...my no 013-3247275..im giving you but with one condition..dont angry if i didnt reply because im not "msj" type.
Prince :(who cares as long i get your number)...ok i swear...bye(walking away)
"it so pathetic that i'm acting like a desperate guy but its an awesome,sparkling day because my bait has been hit"..(hahaha,baby evil laugh with a cute voice)
Stages 2- Baiting
she was everything to me...texting,facebook,email,ym connect us together....
its a normal thing we spend couple hours only talking during night time until dawn..wt-fIsh..haha..but it a fact..
Then when time comes,with a simple word she's my "everthing"
Prince: cinderella...Will you be my shushi..?
Mrs.Cinderella: shushi?...
Prince:no no, i mean girlfriend...
Mrs.Cinderella: i dun know(blushing)...it too fast and rush...but i will not say no...
Prince: sooooooooooo??...did you say yes..(hoping for word of miracle)
Mrs.Cinderella: ya...of cos...im in luv with you too...u r so kind and nice to me...
Then its like honeymoon time for me,i know for sure u r my princess now on...i'm not thinking bout others...you...you..and only you...(*i didn't tell you that this is my 1st time i fall in luv with someone and you are my 1st gf.haha...you r the only person that touched my heart)
Stages 3- Married
Everytime i meet her, it a precious time...it is a good reason that we meet together....you are finally mine...lastly i can convey you,cinderella...you are my number one...you are my perfect one...
its the time that we can finally be together..do things together..eating,drinking,jogging,even smiling together...Honey,do you remembered that night we stay up, do nothing,see each other and just laughing all night long..when u smile, i smile....its soooooooooo romanctic...it is like when we see mirror and we can see each other..i can see u smile with lot of love...
Mrs.Cinderella: thanks b for making me smile everyday...now you r no longer prince..you are my Mr.cinderella.
Mr.Cinderella : you r my everything...i want you so badly....im hoping that we are together until death separate us.(nah...metaphora word)
Mrs.Cinderella:b,thanks again for this present...happy annivesary sayang..i luv u will all my life..
but eventually pepatah orang melayu"langit tak selalu cerah" and "sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit"
we always scolding, quarrellings...day to day to another day just the same routine= quarrellings about the same thing...no more beautiful day for us....a new word for the day "im sorry"..it is a suck day when it fulfill with sadness.Then we moved up into the next stage...
Stage 4-Moody
the distances between us growth...starting to doubt each other....Someone stop trying...push each other...what i can described my relationship is about sadness, argument and disagrement...
Mrs.Moody: Stupid....i hate you...
Mr. Moody: i'm sorry but it wasn't my fault...my hp batteries dead...but wait?...u said i'm stupid?..
Mrs.Moody: DOn't lie to me...i knew your r flirting with someone yesterday...dun ever lie to me...b,i'm sorry but plis don't cheat me...i'm tired of being cheated from you...
Mr.Moody: whatever....if you don't believe u...it your calls...but u know what?..i never intend to cheat you...
(see!!! a simple mistakes makes distance between us...handphone,msj,flirting?....crap)common girl,i'm sorry for everything...i'm not doing it deliberately...it just my hp battery was dead...
Stages 5-Strangers
The changing is so drastic....People change over the time..handphone is not my best friend anymore...it just happen so abruptly.....i didn't felt enthusiasm in our relationship anymore..tired of everything...what next?...i try to fix everything but it doesn't work....i don't know whether to defend our relationship or leave it to mate..lies,lies and another lies...tired of being stupid for each other...
Mr.Stranger: Cinderella,we have to discuss about our relationship...
Mrs.Stranger: ya i know....we had a difficult time but i luv u b..
Mr.Stranger: i dont know what to say but i hope we can be friends,it for our good ...
Mrs.Stranger: i dont want to end our relationship..for sake...dont..
Mr.Stranger: I luv u,thats y im doing this....find a better man for you..this is good for us..
Mrs.Strangers: find....i hope we can remain friend after this...
thing will never be the same.....it like a starting point where we didn't know each other...our path and goal will never be the same...eventually i never think to end our relationship after 2 years we are together...life will go on...and both will move on and find someone new...
its just a story that being created by me...Here's the point,what the point of having relationship if there are ending stages..?...breaking stages?.having a long relationship then break up?...hell no...uncertain relationship?...better focus to important thing...future,future and better future....
Solution= find someone then get married...happy ending....
"Don't whispered to my ear,but into my heart..it not my lip you have to kiss,but it my soul your have to touch"
P/s: .. i never can be described a good relationship...i'm sorry...i just want to share my thought and my experience...someone told me that key of successful relationship= appreciate..Then,most people realize what they have when they lose that special person. People should realise what they have before its too late.
sincerely,
Mr.Cinderella...
